Think you’ve got kissing all figured out? Not so fast. Most of us tend to fall into a routine: a quick hello peck, the same old couch make-out, and then repeat. Cute? Sure. Exciting? Not really. The truth is, your lips are way more versatile than you give them credit for. With just a little creativity, you can go from “aww, sweet” to “wow, did it just get hot in here?”
Here are seven fun ways to shake things up and keep your kissing game unforgettable.
1. The Triangle Kiss
This one is basically PG-rated foreplay you can sneak into date night without anyone calling security. Start with a slow kiss on the lips, wander over to his cheek, trail down to his neck, then loop back to his mouth. The trick? Don’t rush. Take your time and savor each spot like it’s your favorite treat. By the time you finish the “triangle,” he’ll be more than ready for round two.
Pro tip: Let your lips hover just above his skin for a second before you land the kiss. That tiny moment of suspense? Absolute magic.
2. The Tease
Equal parts flirty and evil genius. When you’re talking to him—bonus points if you’re dishing out compliments—let your lips brush his like you’re about to go in… and then pull back. Do this a few times and watch him lose his mind. When you finally allow for the kiss to happen, it’ll feel like pure electricity.
Pro tip: Eye contact is everything. Add in a playful smile and a little pause, and suddenly the tension feels like it’s got its own heartbeat.
3. The French Kiss Remix
French kissing is classic, but classics are meant to be remixed. Instead of the usual swirl, dart your tongue in and out, then switch things up with a little gentle lip or tongue sucking. It keeps him guessing—and wanting.
Pro tip: Alternate between swirling and darting. Variety not only adds flavor to life but also enhances the experience of kissing.
4. A Little Nibble
The goal is to be playful, not draw blood, you’re not Dracula. Lightly bite his bottom lip before pulling away, or sneak in a soft nip on his ear. Bonus points for light collarbone nibbles. Done right, it’s the kind of move that’ll make his knees wobble.
Pro tip: Keep it gentle. If he flinches instead of groaning, you’ve overdone it. Hissing can be taken either way *wink*.
5. The Soft Suck
You don’t need to leave evidence (aka hickeys), but a touch of suction can be super intimate. Try it on his lip, neck, or even his fingers if you’re feeling bold. The mix of soft lips and light suction? Game. Changed.
Pro tip: Think short, teasing bursts.
6. The Tickler
In movies makeup sessions are usually really intense and serious, but we all know that a laugh here and there can make the whole thing even more fun. So if you don’t mind a giggle mid kiss try this. Use the tip of your tongue to trace his lips—ticklish, teasing, and the perfect cue that you’re ready to dive into something deeper. Playful and hot? Yes, please.
Pro tip: Go feather-light. The softer you go, the more he’ll squirm (in a good way).
7. The Sweet Stuff
Not every kiss needs to scream “bedroom now.” Sometimes you just want a moment of tenderness and silliness. Butterfly kisses with your eyelashes, Eskimo kisses with your noses—these aren’t exactly hot stuff, but they will make you feel close and comfortable and a little silly. Is that not part of real intimacy too?
Pro tip: Mix these in with the steamier stuff. It keeps things balanced—and way more real.
You’ll be surprised how one little change can reignite the spark. Now the only question is… which move are you trying first?
